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Enjoy together at that moment while u are inlove. If ur not happy anymore then split in a good way 🎉🎉🎉

It's simple here. No money no honey.

i guess this guy cried about aleays being in the friend zone , obviously he wants to appear cool but he is not , just a nred

Gosh, such an amazing interview, so truthful and real. I learnt a lot about myself and my choices going forward through listening to these insights, thankyou for sharing. The Tampo challenge is a big one, it really concerns me, ...it makes me wonder., if its such a cultural thing with PH ladies....Cheers gents, this was a good one ! Enjoy you journey, and good luck with your choices over there. Wishing you happiness )) (...it's a privileged ride!...very cool comment) Please do more follow up interviews as you both grow, ....

Never, ever, ever tolerate this childish/immature ‘Tampo’…

I think that is it, innit? That Daddy title 🎉

Try an old hag instead of 20's age group

Wow this interview was amazing I really identified and appreciate this guy. I feel like he's my twin He's educated calm self-reflective and doing the best he can I really appreciate his sharing all this on UA-cam it makes me feel better because I had the same thoughts and feelings

In the Marines, we would haze weak men in an attempt to identify who would crack under pressure. We needed to know who would run away crying when the bullets started flying as our life would depend on it. This guy is correct. As a man, he is useless. He would fall apart and get everyone killed. This is why strong men hate/reject him. It is called evolution.

As Pinay we are caring to family to our love ones ,we may go out plsy dance enjoy but we know what's real life but we need to handle it with Care

This is so strange, I must be the exception to the rule. My wife was 100% born and raised American girl German/Irish heritage redhead. She was ALL about the TAMPO. When she got mad she would run silent and deep like a submarine going to the bottom of the ocean! I accepted that for 21 years. I had no idea it was called TAMPO in the Phil's. I think part of the reason she was that way was her domineering mother. Even as an adult she would never speak up when her mother pissed her off. Her mother would never let her disagree about anything even when she was 40 yr old! LOL

I wonder if you dont mind how to get contact of him????

Ohhhh im from La Union

Unless his intwtested of younger ladies then its fine.. For me i just want a good ,respected kind of guy (companion)

Hey Chad....Im 51 y.o. away in Malaysia.... Planning to get retire and go back to Phill ....im mind of willing to meet this kind looking guy....

There is no perfect woman in the USA. Similarly, there are no perfect women in the Philipinnes. You are perfectly correct, a 10 is not necessarily the most desirable. I say a 7 to 8 is near the optimum. You said that gratefulness is key. I fully agree.

I like these guys living in the Philippines for two years and giving advise to the world about the country, people and culture.... I don't know all of this after 31 years married to a Filipina and living as a retirees in the Philippines... This guy would be a good salesman for sleeping pills because I was always sleeping after 10 minutes...

She’s almost ur daughter or granddaughter… that’s y u old foreigners take for granted to come in d Philippines! U don’t hv self respect and respect to these young women! And to Pinays who r so young n up for older men obviously it’s for free meals, free tours, n financial purposes… u disagree?! Well, reality bites! Nope

Sometimes its not them but the man

kapag alam nilang old na sila hahanap na sila ng batang pinay para maging caregiver at all around maid tas cook at sa gabi pokpok ang labas ng pinay kilangan fully preformance ang girl dapat nag helicopter kasi kong hindi mo galingan hanap agad ng mas bata ulit at gawing personal yaya nila😂😂 masakit na katutuhanan

Have you ever considered silencing your phone notifications in an effort to help your Filipina’s PTSD from her past experiences?

Looks amazing, relocating to Manila after summer and this seems fantastic 🔥🌄😊

"I'm not giving up my friends." Well, maybe you should marry your friends then. What a clown. You've been friends with a female in the US for 50 years? Maybe you should marry her. I am a single man and I also have friends but I would have no problem letting my sig other see my phone on request. I thought that's the whole point of being exclusive. This guy thinks being exclusive means something else. Good luck because emotionally, if you don't manage that love interest, eventually, you won't have a love interest. He's single after 2 years of being in that third world country. Well, there you go.....foregone conclusion.

He is just being smart he knows they just want your money.

Sugar Daddy. "Mentor". Better life. Support of the family or another man's kids. Fake passion. No matter how you say it, it's money for honey.

If she really is an 8,9 or 10 (limited makeup) Just pay monthly severance pay-so when you split up she won’t go crazy as she has some pesos!

What a load of crap! 1 There is a huge cultural gap between westerners (still individualism dominant) and Filipinas (tribalism). She will never be independent of her extended family. No matter how you treat her. Once you in a relationship with her, you are in a relationship with the whole family. And that includes regular financial contributions, 2 In her mind, you are a walking ATM. Especially, if there is a huge age gap. Do not fool yourself. Young girls are attracted to young guys. If there is a gap of more than 6-7 years, you are a sugar daddy. Make no mistake about it. 3 In most cases, there is a huge difference in education/knowledge/life experience. After a short while you will find yourself with a total stranger under one roof. Most of them are EXTREMELY primitive. There will be absolutely nothing to talk about.

This kind of girls are Lazy. F u ask me f i love this Mam no as in nooooooooooo bitter to b alone its hard bcoz myb he have a lots of sickness.

There are lots of conservative down to earth Filipinas with province type attitudes in Manila. They are in Middle to Upper Middle Class families, mostly in gated subdivisions. The Parents of these Filipinas have strong say on who their daughters (and sons) should date and most of them don't want their daughters with University Degrees and jobs to marry old divorced Foreigners from North America that have no plans of having kids. These educated women are also not in awe of Foreign passports as they have the capability to move abroad on their own.

You're putting out false meanings to the women for being exclusive. You need to be more upfront. You need to grow up. Come on, you know what you're doing.

Why are you even trying, why buy a book, when there's a library full of them available, hire a maid and play the field, in the end it will be cheaper for you.

Insightful interview!

Ubud, Bali...every day, planeloads of 30 to 50 year-old western and eastern women arrive to find spiritual bliss and romance. It's possible to get a 20 year age gap there with an intelligent, worldly, open-minded woman. Hang out at the Yoga Barn and the cafes, and stroll around in the evenings. Attend some of the retreats and workshops.

7 minutes in, it sounds like this man is confused as to who he is. I am hoping during this conversation he realizes something. Twelve minutes in, and I have to stop. I appreciate your efforts, but this man just isn't interesting to me. Hopefully he hits a vibe for some of your other viewers.

Passport bros being passport pwnd!

still call this type old guy semi perverted

I tried reaching out to you do you not respond to subscriber

This guy is waaaay over-glorifying how ready & willing these girls are to take action to begin a relationship with a foreigner. They like to giggle & gossip about it. But in reality, good luck getting 95% of them out of bed to meet you for coffee, it doesn't matter how much value you could potentially bring to her life. City girls, province girls, island girls, doesn't matter.... they are all 'too busy' with tiktok or this that & the other thing and fail to see the bigger picture - don't believe me? Come find out & see

im telling you, middle and upper class Filipinas generally do NOT find foreigners attractive. Locals keep telling them. They never listen.

Are you planning on visiting the better countries Thai, Vietnam or Bali

Such interesting interviews. He has the wisdom to know what is important in life. Reflective and honest.

Snap out of it boys! You can only successfully tell a woman, you're "just looking for fun" If you are highly attractive or very wealthy! The rest of us have to lie about wanting a wife, if we want the bra to come off!

If he doesn't want tampo, maybe he should go to another southeast asia.

great info & video

good info good video

The older I get, the more I realize what this guy says that in 20 years, you'll wish you did what you wanted. Every year, I think I'll work just another year, then retire early. I've said this for the past 4 years

C'mon, you still need to have some game. If you're some frumpy, middle-aged white dude with no style and no personality, don't expect to land a 10 half your age. That's ridiculous.

I met my wife online 20 years ago and I have helped quite a few guys meet the right Filipina. When looking for my Filipina, I struggled a lot until I started using the advanced search engine. I only pursued girls with a 4 year degree, under the age of 30, never married and no kids. The big one is the 4 year degree. I figured if I'm tying to find a Filipina, I want a quality one. Best to look for a nurse, teacher, call center girl, etc. The 4 year degree shows maturity, smarts, comes from a better than average family etc. Thought I'd share with all the guys struggling to find the right one.

Props to you for being an equal opportunity interviewer. But this Justin gives off creepy bs critter vibes right off the bat.

im white 78 and been with my chinese wife for 55 years - best years in my life!